1 out of 3

+ a little anger flavour thrown inbetween the lines

= main message delivered

= main message understood

= decision taken by the one guy who needed to take a decision in order to clarify

= could be one not too happy person, but i am not sure as i am not able to read her well anyway

on the other hand:

she is already not keeping up with her promises. again.

so what.

i do sleep much better now.

still 2 to go.

looks like i will get the chance, someday.

some other time.

if not. not.

i will not insist.

if you're nice.

but i will not take everything anymore, either.

i want to be a professional

think positive.
this is not about me.

i will think about the project,
i do care about the project,
what is good for the project,
i am concerned with regard to the project,
i feel the duty as an expert to point out,
that things could be improved,
which would result in a greater,
and more positive impact,
which would be good for the project,
i based my comments and amendments,
on advise received,
but i have the feelingproof,
i am not heard,
which i am surprised,
especially as mistakes are re-inserted,
and i would like to know,
if this is how you want it,
then i refrain from further action,
but feel
i must stress out of my duty and the obligations i feel for the project
to warn
to advise
now
i will rest my case

and on another issue
i would like to point out
that for me good cooperation
in a team
consists of support and acceptance of work and effort conducted by others
as i do provide
with regard to some things
and i would wish this also
if
i ask for support
as i did in this respect
which was at first ignored

and finally
i would like to utter a personal wish
i would be happy
if the e-mails could just sound a bit more friendly and polite
(we are not the army)

'there are other options'

yes.

thanks, DFW: thoughts - and words - on thinking and your choice of thinking by David Foster Wallace for gaining a different perspective. worked for me (it's not all about me).

life goes on, regardless

do not worry too much about things you can only change in the near future not today nor tomorrow. you thought them through, you came up with a plan, which you discussed with others. the others agreed. so the plan cannot be too bad. so, please do not worry all the time, do not bother. it is not worth it. it's just some office mishap. to be clarified in due time, as soon as possible without jumping into more mishap.

life goes on, regardless

text from a song by "the beautiful south"? i will check my old tapes(!), the song lyrics should be somewhere on them.